Birthdays of the Dead

Six years ago today Jim celebrated his last birthday with us.

Love in the Spaces

Iceland 1430

Earth-smoke and rue. Ashy gusts burst and thin and billow again, like those trick candles that can’t be blown out.

Today is Jim’s birthday.  Our birthdays, in different years, fell only ten days apart, both feeding into holidays our family now celebrates more in miniature.

We now live in a small house on a postage-stamp lot. My vehicle has shrunk considerably, the mighty mom van traded out for better gas mileage, fewer seats, and barely enough space to hoist a Charlie Brown Christmas tree. Even the beagle has downsized.

The Lilliputian scaling is apt for a surviving spouse of my fairly petite dimensions.

Jim was more than a foot taller than I. His mark on the world remains large.

I just had follow-up x-rays at the hospital where Jim worked and was a patient. The orthopedist was checking on the status of healing bones (a story for another time, having…

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In her spare time, Stephanie works full-time, and then some, as an attorney. She has published articles and delivered talks in arcane fields like evidentiary issues, jury instructions, expert witnesses, and forensic evidence. She also is an adjunct professor at a law school on the banks of the Charles and loves that dirty water, as she will always think of Boston as her home. You are welcome to take a look at her Facebook author page, or follow @SMartinGlennon on Twitter. All content on this blog, unless otherwise attributed, is (c) 2012-2016 by Stephanie M. Glennon and should not be reproduced (in any form other than re-blogging in accordance with Wordpress protocol and the numerous other wee buttons at the bottom of each post) without the express permission of the domain holder.
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6 Responses to Birthdays of the Dead

  1. scillagrace says:

    I love returning to your writing. I found another coincidence: my Jim and I had birthdays just 5 days apart. We straddled an astrological divide, and I think we both stepped across the Leo/Virgo line a lot. May your heart be whole, Stephanie, and bring you peace. ❤

  2. ann says:

    Love this post and you and Jim and 1,2,3,4 wonderful offspring. Can you and family members come for early dinner and get together — and Daniel and family — next Sunday?????? XXXXX
    depending on weather and driving ???????

  3. Debbie L says:

    I just shared about my beloved Steve, not just a brother in law, but a big brother to me. He and my sister began dating when I was 12. He became my tutor as I struggled in school. How proud he was that he’s not only graduated HS then college, but even earned a MS with straight As! The lessons he taught me were there with every paper I wrote and every test I took!
    We just celebrated what would have been his 71st birthday on December 5. Tough month.
    I love your writing…Wow, your Jim….

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